The most important tip for anyone getting married is to 


Don't feel like your wedding has to be a certain way because of expectations from other people. If that means eloping in the mountains, just the two of you- do it. If that means a small, intimate wedding with your closest friends and family- do it. If that means a massive celebration for everyone to enjoy- do it! Just be true to yourselves. This day is about you two, after all.

stay true to yourselves as a couple.

I've been shooting weddings since 2014 and have acquired some tips along the way.  

HIRE VENDORS YOU ENJOY BEING AROUND
Obviously you want to like their work, but I can tell you being around someone you like will make your day run much smoother.  

PLAN OUT WHATS MOST IMPORTANT TO YOU AS A COUPLE
then allocate your budget accordingly! Think about the things your willing to splurge on and where you're willing to cut back.

ASK FOR HELP
This is especially important if you're planning a big wedding. Make a list of jobs that need done. That way when people come and ask what they can do you're able to delegate out tasks leaving less for you to stress about. Many hands make for light work.

MAKE TIME TO SPEND WITH EACH OTHER
this sounds crazy- until you've got married and you realize 1. the day will fly by and 2. you will spend very little time alone on your wedding unless you plan for it. Plan 15-30 min to hang out, have a drink & chat.

UNPLUG
If ever there was a time to live in the moment- this is it. 

NEW SHOES- OUCH!
Brides & Grooms- it's going to be a long day. Be sure you wear your shoes around the house enough to break them in before your wedding.

EAT
You're excited and adrenalin is pumping and it's easy enough to forget to eat. Plan to have finger food around while you're getting ready in the morning. Champagne doesn't count as food-unless there's strawberries in it.

HIRE PROFESSIONALS
This doesn't mean that you can't do things yourself but know your limits. You don't want your guests starving because your uncle Joe didn't know how long it would take to serve dinner or your bestie losing all your wedding photos because she didn't have them backed up. You don't get a re-do!

FAMILY PHOTOS
Be sure to tell your families what time you are having family photos. I usually recommend right after the ceremony so no one takes off. It's great to make a list of the shots you'd like and then have a close friend who knows everyone there to help. They can round everyone up for you! It's also nice to plan to do grandparent shots first- or have a chair for them to sit if need be.

PINTEREST
This is such a great resource but don't get too caught up in it. Use it as a resource but plan a day that's you, not you recreating someone else's wedding.

GOOD LIGHTING
Ever been to a wedding or bar or restaurant and it's just too bright? Adjusting light will set the mood and get everyone ready to hit the dance floor.

WEATHER
It might rain. Don't stress about it. In 5 years, you're not going to worry about the bottom of your dress being wet, or your curls not being perfect. The day is uniquely yours, embrace that!

HAVE FUN
Lastly, have fun! In the planning, on your day and with the memories you'll cherish forever.